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  • Midlife Club: About
    as men and women discover their inner strengths while dealing with crisis issues It is that wisdom that inspired the book How To Survive Your Husband s Midlife Crisis published by Perigee in 2003 and republished in 2011 by Home Leisure Publishing Inc Understanding why a person suddenly changes learning not to take their actions personally and finding forgiveness for their actions are all part of surviving a spouse s midlife transition While we often say someone is having a midlife crisis it s more likely that their transition is causing a crisis for those who love them If you have found this site while searching for information about midlife crisis you re in the right place We ve assembled a selection of articles dealing with all aspects of midlife relationships and links to useful sites If you re a woman dealing with your husband s middle age issues or a man in crisis be sure to read HIS Midlife Crisis We re often asked if we have a similar article regarding her midlife crisis and to date the response is that we have several articles focusing on women s issues at midlife NOTE While midlife crisis may involve cheating cheating does not always mean a person is having a midlife crisis Midlife middle age Period If he s 28 and cheating he s not having a midlife crisis If he s 68 and cheating he s not having a midlife crisis If he s middle aged and has been a cheater for years he s a middle aged cheater If he s middle aged and cheating for the first time maybe his cheating is related to midlife issues The Midlife Club Forum The Midlife Club Forum is the heart of the Midlife Club and it is open 24 hours a day 7 days a week Because members come from around the globe there is usually always someone online to respond to emergency posts or people chatting in one of the various chat rooms There is no cost to join but you will have to register in order to read post or chat Part of the registration process requires that you validate your email address by clicking through a link in the email sent to you when you register If you use an invalid email address your registration will fail If the validation email sent to you gets stopped by spam filters or you have blockers on new emails you won t be able to get into the forum The forum is provided so that men and women dealing with their own midlife related issues or the midlife related issues of their significant other may network with each other Topics discussed can be very personal intense and challenging You won t always like what you read or agree with what is said or the manner in which it is said You are encouraged to take what you need and ignore the rest Please DO NOT use your real name location

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  • Midlife Club: HIS Midlife Crisis!
    is because he knows he s not at fault There s not much you can do to speed up his passage through this crisis in your lives He probably doesn t want to talk about it at least not to you He may believe that you re the whole reason he feels the way he does It s not true You need to understand that this is his problem it will have to be his solution what he s going through is normal and you are not responsible You can t change it or fix it because you didn t break it You will have to step back and let him whirl around in his search to find himself He has a need to blame someone for the bad feelings he has for the terrible way he s acting for the lousy way he feels Don t believe it if he says everything wrong in his life is because of you And don t try to explain his feelings to him because you can t and he won t listen Men Are From Pluto Women Are From Macy s There s no doubt men and women are quite different in how they handle emotional situations and midlife is one of the most notable examples As a female you have been trained to take care of other people to be responsible for their well being to make things run smoothly You have been taught when relationships don t go well it is your responsibility to correct the situation You look inside yourself for the answers In the case of his midlife crisis you won t be able to correct the situation the answers must come from him You cannot change his behavior he must If you think you can change his behavior by changing yourself you are in for a lot of anger and disappointment This issue is not about you it is all about him Men are expected to hide their emotions but that doesn t mean the emotions don t exist they re buried deep in the recesses of how real men act Men and women are from the same planet no matter how alien the male of the species seems when he s plowing through his midlife crisis When you get angry it is okay for you to express that anger but society says he must be in control no matter the situation Because he appears in control of his emotions it is easy to believe that he is unfeeling but even the most grown up men sometimes have a need to cry Unfortunately it s just not allowed His Financial Image Society measures the worth and success of a man by how much money he has and makes If he isn t making the kind of money he thinks he should he will be angry at the obstacles he believes are standing in his way He may believe his family responsibilities are holding him back He needs

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  • Midlife Club: Forum Registration
    the views of this forum or the forum s owner Anyone who feels that a posted message is objectionable is encouraged to notify the administrator of this forum immediately The administrator reserves the right to remove objectionable content within a reasonable time frame if in her sole opinion removal is necessary This is a manual process however please realize that messages may not be edited or removed immediately This policy pertains to member IDs and other personal information as well You remain solely responsible for the content of your posted messages Furthermore you agree to indemnify and hold harmless the owner of this forum any related websites to this forum its staff and its subsidiaries The owner of this forum also reserves the right to reveal your identity or any other related information collected on this service in the event of a formal complaint or legal action arising from any situation caused by your use of this forum Once your registration has been approved you will be able to change your forum ID and password If you choose to do so do not use your real name and please keep your user ID appropriate Any username that is considered to be spam obscene or otherwise out of place will be deleted You also agree to never give your password out to another person and you also agree to never use another person s account for any reason All posts to the Midlife Club forum may be reproduced in other publications produced by Pat Gaudette or Home Leisure Publishing Inc Any communication or material you post or transmit to Midlife Club or Home Leisure is and will be treated as non confidential and non proprietary You assume full responsibility for anything you post or transmit and you grant Pat Gaudette and

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  • HER Crisis - Midlife Club
    do about it More Midlife Crisis In Women Life is a cycle of seasons and the transitions between seasons can be worrisome Often there may be minor disruptions in life style which are soon resolved But when they persist there is a crisis Midlife is one such period which has been recognized as a period of potential crisis More The Ultimate Midlife Crisis Help I m A Lesbian Some people have the urge to buy a sports car others change jobs but the ultimate midlife crisis has got to be discovering yourself to be a lesbian More Midlife Crisis Hers When a middle aged man dumps his wife for a lover young enough to be his daughter or granddaughter it s shrugged off as an expected part of a certain age But what happens when a woman suddenly chucks it all in search of answers to is this all there is More His Wife s Midlife Crisis He wrote I am the husband but just read about male mlc and was amazed at how well it described what my 43 year old wife of 24 years is going through she is having such a crisis all her own and i m desperately trying to hang on to her Please help More Is She Having A Midlife Crisis She wrote to say that she is tired of being in an abusive marriage She s tired of telling her husband she needs more and him ignoring her words She s tired of trying to make a bad marriage good She says she used to believe in love lasting forever but now she says she can t feel any love at all More Her Struggle With Midlife Issues Midlife crisis isn t just a problem men have to deal with as they get

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  • Crisis or Transition? - Midlife Club
    was one of the most eye opening and personally impact full books I ve ever read and I read all the time It s by a man named Wally Minto and it s called The Results Book I d like to introduce you to some of his ideas More How a Midlife Crisis Can Improve Your Life They may be just three short words but they are enough to make some of us break out into a cold sweat and catapult others headlong into a midlife identity crisis The words responsible for such strong reactions form a deceptively simple question Who am I More Warding Off the Signs of Midlife Crisis Midlife can be an awesome time for true transformation I like to use the words midlife transition rather than midlife crisis So the first thing you want to do is to be certain to identify the signs That way you can use this time of life to become something greater More Midlife Transition The Benefits of Life Long Learning As a Way of Avoiding Midlife Crisis I don t think I could ever really have a midlife crisis because a crisis implies you don t know what to do When I don t know what to do I have always found a way to find out whether that s about something related to health money or anything that effects my career or relationships More Midlife Dating Tip Accept Your Changing Body And Reject Midlife Crisis Middle age can be a challenging time for dating and yet at the same time you may feel exhilarated to get out there and meet people Unfortunately the media wants to snuff out your excitement because you no longer look 20 years old More Midlife Crisis Or Opportunity Midlife doesn t have to signal crisis in a marriage and midlife issues probably won t cause major disruption for the majority of marriages However if you are here because your marriage is failing and you or your spouse are middle aged midlife crisis might be the term that will best describe what you re going through More Midlife Crisis Symptoms Baby Boomers Can Turn Crisis Into Triumph Midlife crisis symptoms can seem to come out of nowhere More common for men than women midlife crisis symptoms can turn your life upside down More How To Avoid A Midlife Crisis Choose A Simple Life The other day I happened upon an article on my MSN homepage titled How To Have a Midlife Crisis by Hugh O Neil I invite you to read his article as it is both enlightening and immensely entertaining Then just last night our local news featured a story on the whole fact vs myth of the dreaded midlife crisis More Avoid a Midlife Crisis by Making a Bucket List There are a lot of people today who are talking about the end of the Mayan calendar which takes place in the year 2012 Some are confusing it with the end of the

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  • HIS Crisis - Midlife Club
    grade 9 science class they finally have something to say More Book Excerpt How To Survive Your Husband s Midlife Crisis From Chapter 1 The Unexpected Journey When a Marriage Changes and Why Rude Awakenings First Signs of Trouble Many members of the Midlife Wives Club recall with excruciating accuracy the precise moment they knew their lives would never be the same Grace had a premonition Her husband Roger had returned to England from a trip overseas After sleeping late he said he wanted to take a walk to get some fresh air and buy a paper More How To Survive Your Husband s Midlife Crisis Introduction Welcome to the Club We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love never so helplessly unhappy as when we have lost our love object or its love Sigmund Freud written in 1930 age 74 More How Deep Will Your Midlife Crisis Go I was determined not to have a midlife crisis I had one The scary part of it all was that the results lasted over a period of about 20 years By results I mean there were unresolved issues that hung on for that length of time That s one of the most uncomfortable aspects of a midlife crisis you re never really in charge of how or in my case when they re going to turn out More It s Not You It s Your Midlife Crisis We all go through our share of ups and downs in life One of the most famous examples of a down is the male midlife crisis Whether you believe that the midlife crisis is psychological physical or a problem with modern society the fact is that a large number of men must deal with this issue More Mid Life Crisis Is Just Another Adventure Right Life is definitely an adventure and a few years back I decided to change the course of mine and add a little more adventure I have been in the financial planning and insurance business for more than 25 years and for the most part had enjoyed the profession More Andropause Exploring Male Menopause and Mid Life Crisis For years many have dismissed the changes that middle aged men experience both mentally and physically and simply attributed them to mid life crises However we now know these changes are more than just circumstance or because of other extraneous factors but instead are largely due to an inevitable decline in male hormones resulting in andropause the male equivalent of menopause More The Mid Life Crisis Anxiety According to Daniel Levinson s research into man s evolutionary Seasons only 20 per cent of people find themselves in a manageable transition period a time in which they attempt to understand themselves and the changes they are experiencing a period in which to come to terms with their losses and explore possibilities for growing and enriching their lives More Midlife Crisis Fact Or Fiction What animal walks on four feet in

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  • Midlife Affairs - Midlife Club
    would visit his go go dancing affair partner every other weekend in Vegas Although I was told of a mere fraction of his mini romances as he called them at the time and I was given very few specifics I told him to leave that day and I filed for divorce 3 weeks later Not only did I never once consider reconciliation I would never even knowingly befriend a person like this More Adventures in Infidelity Author Pamela Druckerman writes Back when I was a financial journalist no one asked me if I had ever traded derivatives or shorted a stock But in my new incarnation as a chronicler of global infidelity my own experience with the subject seems to be my chief credential Reviewers of my book Lust in Translation have routinely asked what my choice of topic says about my own marriage More Sleeping Around the World The morning after François Mitterrand s funeral a photo showed the late president s mistress and illegitimate daughter standing by his grave alongside his wife and sons That tableau has become famous internationally as proof that the French are uniquely tolerant of extramarital affairs More Betrayed She wrote Our marriage has been rocky for many years but I never dreamed my husband would suck the life out of me by having a relationship with a 20 something woman It has now ended but I will never be the same I started counselling today but feel I can t get over the pain More His Midlife Affair After 18 years of marriage her 41 year old husband wants a divorce so he can find the passion he s missing in his marriage She says his recent affair with a younger woman has left her devastated and him feeling that he s missing

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  • Midlife Divorce - Midlife Club
    all of its dysfunction What she was having trouble with was moving past the memories More Memories Of The Past As you work your way through the black hole of divorce memories of particularly good times that you and your soon to be ex husband or wife shared together will surface You may hear a song or find a photo or someone will say something that triggers the memory The pain will get deeper or your anger will grow stronger More Begging Him Or Her To Stay I love him and I don t want to lose him I am so desperate to save my marriage It s a familiar plea the need to force a husband or wife to stay in a marriage they re attempting to flee More The Price The Next Spouse Pays Having a marriage fail at midlife does not mean you won t meet and fall in love again Most likely you will Just how successful that marriage will be has a lot to do with how you handle the baggage both you and your new love bring to the marriage More Midlife Divorce Having had two marriages end during the midlife years I have a slight advantage understanding why aging has the potential to blow a marriage apart More Divorce At Midlife Midlife can be a dangerous time for marriage Some marriages won t survive Some marriages will be patched back together but key ingredients will be missing Some marriages will be made even stronger More Midlife Crisis and Divorce The term midlife crisis is used to encompass a great many reasons why people do the damaging things they do to destroy their marriage Midlife crisis is sometimes used to brand any type of unsuitable behavior within a marriage even if the person is

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